Pussy Witch Highlights: Sexual Desire, Pussy Empowerment, & Claiming Your Rage
Hey there gorgeous! Welcome to this month’s Pussy Witch Highlights. Sometimes it can be confusing to find the information or the support you need, when it is spread across many platforms. That’s why I have decided to curate a monthly collection of my most helpful and popular Instagram postings on the blog. Fuck yes to making life a little simpler!
THE HIGHLIGHTS OF NOVEMBER 2018
Photo of me and my pussy
Have you ever felt pain in your pussy? Have you ever had sex that was anything less than pleasurable? I sure have. Painful sex and/or pussy pain can feel SO isolating, confusing, frustrating, and just pretty horrible. Especially when our media is filled with so much pressure for us to have this fabulously vibrant sex life.
Hello?! I would like that, but it freaking hurts! Pussy pain may negatively impact your life in a variety of ways. It may affect how you connect with a lover and more importantly how you feel about yourself, and therefore your lens on how you view the whole world. Well, I am 100% certain you deserve a life of pleasure and that pussy pain can be transformed.
That’s why I’m THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THE OPENING OF THE PUSSY PORTAL!
What this?! It’s an online library of resources to help you access the power of your own root. From pelvic massage to pussy steaming, to ancestral tending to earth reclamation.
Curated and offered by Asia Suler the wise witch of One Willow Apothecaries, I was honored to contribute two juicy classes to this super comprehensive library of pussy healing.
with
250+ pages of pdf material
30+ lessons
15 hours of video and audio material
10 guided meditations
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I’m kind of freaking out about this. It’s been so hard to keep it a secret!
Early bird ends November 28th!
Are you ready to reclaim your birthright of bodily pleasure?! Maybe it’s time dive in. Follow your bliss and discover what Asia has curated for you and your pussy. #pussypleasure #pussyportal #selflove
Don’t hide. Don’t shrink. No short cuts. Your rage is sacred. After an evening of heavy metal yoga therapy, I realized the 5 year old in me that wants to throw temper tantrums has been been needing my attention.
For the past few months, I have been suppressing my anger. Instead, I’ve been chasing healing modalities, looking outside of myself for temporary quick fixes. Harm reduction is real important and ultimately I know my wholeness comes from within. I have not been claiming my anger and rage.
Letting it safely out...through music, dance, the forest...through the release of screams. That cathartic release where anger turns to deep sadness...a pain that is sweet and welcoming and is grateful to finally be felt.
But instead I have been stifling my beast, teaching it bitterness and resentment. The perfect recipe for me to be disconnected from truth and my compassionate self. This is one thing that led me to break really important agreements that will take lots of time and care to repair, if ever.
It’s not a time to berate myself, but it is a time to take responsibility. To reflect. To listen. To slow down and fully claim and step into another layer of healing. Another deeper lesson of how important it is to stay true to myself and my care for others in this world. Again, #yaygrowth
Have you been suppressing any emotions? How may this be impacting your life? Your relationships? Your health? Your job? Please share! No judgements coming from me here. ✨
This is me with my kitty, Patty Mayonnaise.
When my outward appearance matches my inner feels... a little empty and dead inside... but I’m not scared. I hate inauthenticity. Right now I honestly feel a bit uninspired and somewhat passionless. That’s okay. It’s also a part of “it.”I will keep sitting with these feels.
Instead of chasing highs with unrealistic quick fixes, I am listening to what my body needs and asking for reflections from those I trust. I had such a beautiful conversation with @jupitersslutpower this morning that made me sooo hopeful in trusting the process of trusting myself. ✨🌹
If you are feeling uninspired and passionless I see you and I love you.
Please tag the artist if you know who this photograph is from!
SEXUAL DESIRE IS NOT A SIN. Maybe consciously we can accept this... but what about the parts of the unconscious mind where we continue to shame ourselves (and often consequently others) for erotic desire? Blaming it as inherently uncontrollable and dangerous.
These messages (such as sex and desire are sinful) are so pervasive in our culture even when they aren’t blatantly told to us... they still creep in. Questioning and listening to these thoughts & feels and to others’ experiences with a whole lots of self love and compassion and non-judgmental curiosity... can do wonders and magic for sexual shame to heal.
Happy new moon in Scorpio, are you doing any rituals tonight? Any sexy rituals?!? Please do share with me, for this my favorite new moon! Personally I have a date night tonight and am recovering from a really intense scare that happened at 3 AM at my house last night. 🦂✨Oh #scorpiomoon #newmoon #sexmagic#sexisntsinful #selflove
Here to remind you (and myself) that our actions indeed have impact and consequences. That can suuuuuck sometimes. What is also true is that we can fuck up, but we aren’t fucked up. However easy, believing we are broken and incapable of change isn’t helpful. I will hold onto the belief that you and I are healing and growing. Change isn’t only possible, it’s inevitable. ✨✨✨#yaymercury #yaygrowth
Thoughts on Nudity & Nature
I can recall clearly the first time I was with friends who wanted to swim naked in the river. I was a freshmyn in college and I remember thinking “I don’t do that. I don’t want to lose respect.” I shake my head and roll my eyes at that younger me.
It took a few years of consistently being around people who liked to swim naked to finally try it myself. At first, I felt so exposed, but then I realized swimming naked just felt pleasurable. I couldn’t deny it!
Not having a bathing suit between my most sensual parts and the water, allowed the water to make love to me. I can’t emphasize that part enough. It just feels so natural. I feel like “I return to the earth” when I am naked outside. I feel like I am back where I should be.
I feel so natural and sexy. My pubic hair, my cellulite, my chipped toe nails all feel so obviously beautiful when surrounded by luscious forest and flowing water.
This is an excerpt from my blog post on finding body confidence. #nakedinnature #selflove
Can you recall a time you LOVED being naked? Maybe it’s frequent and recent or maybe it was when you are still super young...🌿💜
It’s a wrap! These were just a select few of the topics we discussed over on the Pussy Witch Instagram page and if these are conversations you think are worth having, then I would love to have you share your thoughts and wisdom with us!
Take This Work to a Deeper Level
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